How to Design Your Engagement Ring

Oval cut engagement ring and wedding band on hand.

 

Shopping for an engagement ring is already a special time in your life, but when you have the opportunity to customize it, the experience becomes even more meaningful. Engagement rings are sacred. They reflect not only your personal style but the journey you’re about to embark on together. A custom engagement ring allows you to add an even more personal touch to this symbolic moment in time. 

Whether designing a ring for yourself or planning a surprise for your partner, there are ways to make the process of customizing an engagement ring smooth, fun, and stress-free. Especially when you find a jeweler who can assist in making your dream design a reality. 

By the end of this guide, you’ll understand how to design your own engagement ring and why Plum Diamonds is the perfect jeweler to do it with. 

Why Choose a Custom Engagement Ring? 

Customizing your engagement ring gives you the creative control to make every detail your own. From diamond shape, setting style, metal, and even sentimental elements, you have the freedom to design something truly unique. 

Before you start the process, there are a few things to consider if:

You’re Designing A Ring For Yourself

Start with your “no’s.” That may come as a surprise, but in many ways it’s easier to find what you do want when you know what you don't want. This can be narrowing down diamond cuts, metal choices, or even if you’re interested in lab diamonds versus mined diamonds. From there, you can: 

  • Try out your top diamond cuts and sizes. Your diamond cut, whether you choose an oval, princess, or cushion cut engagement ring, will set the tone for the look of your engagement ring. 

  • Decide whether you want to go the classic route with a platinum or white gold metal, or choose to go more modern with a rose gold or yellow gold metal. 

  • Explore different setting options, including low-profile, three stone, cathedral, and other unique engagement ring styles. 

From there, you can start putting visual elements together in mood boards or even sketches, if you want to get really detailed. Even rough sketches can help jewelers create a 3D rendering that makes your ideas feel more real. 

You’re Designing A Ring For Your Partner

The best thing you can do in this case, especially if you want to make it a surprise, is to be observant. Pay close attention to jewelry they already wear, get help from family and friends, or take notes of the subtle (or not so subtle) hints. Once you have a good idea of what fits their style and your budget, you can work with a trusted jeweler to bring that vision to life, creating a ring that feels personal and thoughtful. 

Antique Oval Cut 3 Stone engagement ring on hand

Other Practical Tips to Consider When Designing an Engagement Ring

There’s the fun part of designing an engagement ring where you’re pulling together all of the creative elements to make it a reality. And then there’s the logistical part that might not be as fun, but it's just as important. You will have a better experience going through the process if you’re also aware of things like:

  • Timeline: Most custom rings take 4-12 weeks from start to finish, depending on design complexity and diamond sourcing. Planning removes the stressors of needing to meet your deadline. 

  • Return policies and warranties: Know the options for resizing and protection. 

  • Lifestyle consideration: High-profile settings make a statement, while low-profile settings are practical for everyday wear. 

Building Your Dream Ring with Plum Diamonds

At Plum Diamonds, building your own engagement ring is a personalized partnership. Our process is designed to give you the freedom to create your dream ring and the support to make your experience as enjoyable as possible. 

In three short steps, our team can get you from idea to holding your engagement ring in your hand. Those steps include:

Step 1: Choose Your Diamond

Select your cut from our collection of lab grown engagement rings that include:

To better understand which diamond cut and size you should choose, explore our guide to different diamond shapes and the diamond clarity chart.

Step 2: Pick Your Setting

We have an extensive range of engagement ring settings that include:

You can then choose between metal options that include:

Custom vintage inspired diamond ring on hand.

Step 3: Add Personalized Details

From engravings to unique band choices, we make customizing your engagement rings approachable. From there, you work with our experts to watch your ring come to life. Our process is also online. That way you have the flexibility to design from home, but remember, you’re never alone, our team is there to guide you every step of the way. 

When you customize your ring with Plum Diamonds, you’re creating a unique symbol of your love in the most ethical way possible. Our combination of expert guidance and modern lab grown diamond technology ensures you have the clarity and confidence you need to make the best decision.

Learn more about our custom lab grown engagement rings.

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